realizing reality pt 1

ive come to a few conclusions on this day

well maybe just one.. .
ahem *



TO SURVIVE IN THIS WORLD YOU MUST LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF!

And, NO. not in a self-loathing "ICantStopLookinInTheMirror" manner BUT- love yourself to the point where you are sure of yourself. if you dont, somebody else will enter your life & try to make you believe otherwise. look at you? you are alive and well on the computer reading this,correct? look at the inner beauty you possess and how your outer beauty can compliment that. love yourself for everything you are & everything you do , how you talk , walk , think , dress.. everything!

why? because you are UNIQUE! a beautiful creation of God put on Earth for a purpose. its up to you to figure out that purpose in the days he has granted unto you. i truly believe God does not make mistakes when he created us , do you know how complex we are? i dont think he'd waste the time. so stop wasting yours on people, things and mentalities that will not benefit you

you must understand there is an IMMENSE difference between confidence and cockiness. i suggest you look them up on dictionary.com or something because most people have a hard understanding of these two topics.
however, in my eyes i suggest people should choose confidence over cockiness. this choice will get you much farther in life ...believeeeee me if i could say anything else on this blog. Nobody , nobody likes a person who is so full of themselves as if the world revolves around them. earth to reader, it doesn't and it will never. BUTTTT! if you are proudly cocky and think you are the best thing since sliced bread, half your friends are probably faking it with you .. i highly think so..

some people carry pride on there shoulders and it wears them down with so much weight to the point where they wont even DO certain THINGS for they fear to be seen.. " Omgsh take out the trash ? never ! Get my nails dirty .. nope " " Donate to charity , omgsh who does that ? ew.. " "Hell no, i do not take care of old people they stinkk "

the world revolves around people. around population. us as a society cannot be blind to members of the human race because at some point or another we all need somebody! #TrueStory

so let me say to you, right now if you feel
a. i am ugly
b. i am fat
c. i am stupid
d. i am weird
e. i am worthless
f. i am shy
g. i am too tall
h. i am too short
j. all of the above
or heck, maybe even
i. none of the above

Now, i may not know you? but i KNOW you! we all deal with insecurities, whether your a nerd or a cheerleader. when feeling down, we must keep in mind 1. how can i get rid of these labels? 2. what can i do to make myself feel better as a person?

start by ignoring everybody else.
do it , just try it.
let go of people who want to talk plain smack and focus on, what thought patterns are good for me today? what kind of positive energy can i manifest?

yes it will be hard to show your true colours at times. Why? because you may not want to expose that side in fear people will judge you

can i just say, once again?
FORGET THE WORLD !

NOBODY CARES IN SOCIETY , ESPECIALLY IN YOUR HIGH SCHOOL YEARS! WE HAVE BECOME INSENSITIVE TO ONE ANOTHER IN CERTAIN ASPECTS.At first, it may seem that people REACT to what you do and changes you make the reality is SOCIETY ALWAYS ADAPTS!

i hope you have gained something if nothing from this,
that is my message for the night folks,

God blesssssssssssss. xoxo